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Here are some practical tips that we may want to consider:

                1. Educate your children about the appropriate uses of social media and the poten-

                tial risks associated  with the use of it. Having an open line of communication is very
                importantfrom the moment your kids start usingthe internet independently. When

                it comes to "add"  a  friend   on the social networking  sites, it may be hard  for  the kids
                to resist a'friend request" but advise them to 'friend" orly realfriends  or people they
                have already met. When someone gets in touch with them and makes inappropriate
                moves or comments,  advise them to block that person and report to an adult. Make
                sure their privacy setting on the social media site is "high" which means that only

               friends  can view their information.

                2. Monitor your child's online activity  from   time to time to make sure there is noth-
                ing strange going on. One way to do this is by adding yourself as a'friend" in the
                social media platfurms they are using. This way you will come to know who their

                online  friends  are and what they are sharing by monitoring their online activity to
                some extent. As a parent, you have all the rights to have   full  access to their Facebook

                friends  and can take a look whenever you wish.
                3. Install an appropriate  antivirus  software.  There are very good antivirus  software

                programs available in the mqrket  these dryt. By activating the 'parental control'fea-
                ture of the antivirus software, you cankeep your children awayfrom unwanted sites,
                monitor their internet  usage and limit when and      for  how long they are allowed to

                use internet each day. Some antivirus software has      features   that block online chats
                and monitor  Facebook  posts   for  risky topics. You can even monitor your child's cell
                phone with a software program like AAy Mobile Watchdog.

                4. Some companies sell photos       from  the Internet to advertising agencies. Many

                social-networking users are surprised to     finh  their own photo appearing  in adver-
                tisements. If yours or your child's photos are being used inappropriately,  contact  and
                report it to your social network site right away.

                There are many other safety measures that are not discussed in this article due to size

                Iimitation requirement. To conclude,  the internet and social media are some of the
                most precious  gifts that this century  has ofered to us all. h all depends on the way
                we use it that decides success  or  failure  in our  future.

                                                                  leyendran  Mathias,  Toronto, Canada
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